Hello, my name is riki, my friend katie recently told me that she cut herself. she explained that it was only one time and that she was really upset and that her parents know and she is getting help and all. i felt i dealt with the situation well, and told her i'm always there for her and that she can call me anytime she needs me. yet the following day another friend told me that she saw her arm and there were at least 15 cuts on it. i'm confused whether i should talk to katie or not, and whether i should believe that she really is getting help. katie is a friend from another town, so there isn't really a way for me to know. i feel like she only said she was getting help so i wouldn't try to find some for her.
i realize you guys are just normal people like me, but i don't know where to go from here. should i talk to her? i'm very concerned, because i know recently she's been having a tough time and all, and although i know i shouldn't, i feel guilty because i haven't really been there for her.
i was thinking about maybe writing her a note and buying an empty journal for her to put her thoughts in and giving it to her the next time we see eachother. is this appropriate? any other ideas?
i realize this is a delicate situation and i don't want to break her trust or overstep my boundaries, and this was the only place i could find to turn to. please help me out, i'd appreciate any advice you can offer
i realize you guys are just normal people like me, but i don't know where to go from here. should i talk to her? i'm very concerned, because i know recently she's been having a tough time and all, and although i know i shouldn't, i feel guilty because i haven't really been there for her.
i was thinking about maybe writing her a note and buying an empty journal for her to put her thoughts in and giving it to her the next time we see eachother. is this appropriate? any other ideas?
i realize this is a delicate situation and i don't want to break her trust or overstep my boundaries, and this was the only place i could find to turn to. please help me out, i'd appreciate any advice you can offer

